Stop telling Women what to do!!!

Hi everyone, I know it has been a while, but ya girl was writing her exams. I know you all wished me goodluck, and I felt it during all my papers. I am officially on summer vacation, and I have about two weeks to kill before my summer research officially begins. Seeing as I have all this free time, I hope to blog as much as possible before the work comes in full. I have been watching a lot of nigerian movies, reading a lot of stuff Read more


Finals are coming

When i started writing this post, the first thing that came to my mind was a song from the movie, Half of a Yellow sun. It goes ‘this is the beginning…,’ but instead, my brain had it like, ‘this is the ending…’ I know. That is what this supposed ‘dead week’ is doing to me. I have so much stuff to do this week that I decided to carve out time to blog. I am trying to make sure that the stress does not get to me, and I have decided to Read more

Who do we call friends?

Friends. Just like the word ‘love’, this is a word we are too quick to use. Once we talk to somebody more than once, they have automatically become your friend. Like we scrutinize the teacher whose class we are taking next semester harder than we scrutinize those that we call our friends. It makes you wonder, ‘What is our criteria of friendship?’

So last year, I had these people who I hung out with regularly. They mostly talked to Read more